I really don’t know what to do about her. This has become a HUGE family problem. Her friends have become her enemies and they harrass her on the phone. It got to the point last night where my mother went over to their houses with Che in tow and talked with their parents about what little drugged up deviants they were and threatened to call the police (although she did it in a very dignified and polite way)… I’m so worried about Che. She’s not a bad kid. She’s a good friend, she’s smart and caring and loyal… she deserves so much better but she keeps making the wrong decisions… we want to protect her and keep her happy but there’s only so much you can do before she tells you to back off because she’s 18 and that’s what SHE’S supposed to do. I keep thinking that I might have turned out that way if it hadn’t been for Tony. You guys don’t know what it’s like to be a girl… all of the stigmas around promiscuous sex… all of the pain and heartache we go through wishing for a relationship and wondering what it will take to get one. It’s very easy for a young woman to get pushed to the edge and do things she will regret later on in life. I hope Che hasn’t already done something like that. I’m glad I never really got the chance.